Tuesday, July 18, 2006

"Wah, attend han's bday party never attend mine. And why is mum's fridge missing? Have you sold it off??"

I am fed up but I've just realised that stupid people are going to misinterprete what I write and continue bombarding me anyway. It's like, "Hey, I don't really know what I'm arguing about and I think she has a point but to save face, I'll just be out-of-point and continue arguing about something I don't know anything about. Besides, nobody knows it's me."

I haven't felt this frustrated since I met that stupid person who just went 'Yah!' after I proved my entire argument against her (inside joke, don't bother).

So how did the entire argument come about? Well, you see, after my tag, some idiot tagged and asked why I should be bothered about my mother's fridge going missing. Uhm, hello? You win points for the Stupidest Question of the Year. To top it off, she brought along all her 13 year old mat friends to help her terrorise the tagboard.

Firstly, unless you know Liy and I VERY WELL, I suggest you stay out of it. Whatever I said was an inside joke between me and her. A few weeks ago, we were so broke, we [jokingly] discussed selling things from our house (like our computer monitor) to get a bit of cash. Now, my sister understands the kind of person I am and that statement coming from me would have been okay. She knows I don't mean it. It's just the same like how I take offense when people I barely know call me big-sized but it's alright for Serene to (lovingly) call me fat.

So why are you people so fucking angry when my sister and I are on speaking terms? I just spent sunday with her listening to her wail about her very muddled lovelife. Use your brains. She's my sister. Yes, we do have our disagreements - but how can we not when we're so different? There is sibling rivalry especially since we're both media students but beneath that, I know she loves me and I love her. We've had our fair share of blogwars in the past but we both agreed to never fight in public anymore. There's no need to 'rescue' her because I'm the first to leap to her defense if any of you dare speak bad of her.

That being said, I fail to see how my sister is the victim when my innocuous tag was twisted, making me seem like I'm some sort of evil, calculative sister who comes home and checks all her belongings to make sure Liy hasn't sold them off. Even though it turns out the fridge is at the new house, if it had transpired that Liy indeed had sold it, I would have 'pakat-ed' with her and told my mum it was stolen by thieves or something.

I am extremely weary of this whole made up 'family feud'. It's a mountain made out of a molehill and if anyone's been victimized, it's me. I'm not going to reply there anymore - not because I am cowardly (how can I be when I am the only person actively tagging and not hiding behind an online persona) but because I want to lay it to rest. I didn't write this entry to be defensive but really, most of you blindly fired without even understanding the circumstances that went with it.

I find the whole matter absurd, childish and incredibly stupid. You're all welcome to continue arguing about the bloody minifridge and whether I was insulting my sister (!) but you're all on your own. I have to submit my advertising sales promotion this friday and I still can't believe I wasted so much time.

Thanks for defending me, baby. <3

scribbled at 3:12 AM
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